劈腿族







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劈腿族（promiscuity）是指同時擁有兩位或更多情人者。華人古時有「腳踏兩條船」（臺語俗諺：「雙腳踏雙船，心肝亂紛紛」[1]）的說法，形容一個人用情不專，在兩個對象之中周遊不定。


「劈腿」一詞首次在台灣媒體出現，源自於2002年2月《壹周刊》報導立委高金素梅介入微風廣場董事長廖偉志的戀情，文中先說璩美鳳靠「雙B」，而高金素梅則是「劈腿族」，自此劈腿一詞開始被大眾所熟知，之後並廣泛流傳。


劈腿的狹義定義是與情人或配偶之外的人發生性行為，廣義來說是泛指對感情不忠的人，例如與其他對象牽手、接吻，或有曖昧關係。造成劈腿的主要原因有環境、人性兩個因素。工作環境不同，接觸到的對象也就不同，若再加上不專一、不忠實等個性的弱點，就會造成劈腿行為的產生。報紙上常常看見劈腿二字，許多公眾人物的私生活都被挖掘，劈腿行徑被攤在大眾的眼光下，接受傳統道德上的譴責。


然而，在心理學觀點中，三角關係其實是一個假議題。換句話說，不論是元配、劈腿者、或者是第三者都以為是「劈腿」這件事情讓三個人如此痛苦，三個人都有自己「真正」需要面對的事情[2]：



  • 元配真正要面對的其實是他和劈腿之間的關係本來就出現了狀況

  • 劈腿者真正要面對的是自己總是喜歡「逃避衝突」，不願意去解決的個性

  • 第三者（小三/小王）真正要面對的是，在過去的成長經驗當中是不是有什麼「洞」，讓自己常常會不小心掉進去。



参见



  • 炮友

  • 外遇

  • 第三者 (愛情)

  • 异地恋



註解





  1. ^ 臺南市立永福國小鄉土語言補充教材（臺語俚諺語）


  2. ^ 三角關係完全手冊 - 失戀花園｜小三心理學 劈腿心理學 元配心理學. 失戀花園. [2017-12-03] （中文（台灣）‎）. 




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  • Chakov, Kelly Nineteen Century Social Evolutionism


  • Fortes, Meyer (2005) Kinship and the Social Order: The Legacy of Lewis Henry Morgan ISBN 0-202-30802-2 pp. 7–8

  • Lehrman, Sally The Virtues of Promiscuity (2002)


  • Lerner, Gerda (1986) Women and History vol. 1: The Creation of Patriarchy [1] ISBN 978-0-19-503996-2

  • Lerner, Gerda The Origin of Prostitution in Ancient Mesopotamia Signs, Vol. 11, No. 2 (Winter, 1986), pp. 236–254

  • Schmitt, David P. Sociosexuality from Argentina to Zimbabwe: A 48-nation study of sex, culture, and strategies of human mating Behavioral and Brain Sciences (2005) 28, 247-311


  • Miller, Gerrit S. Jr. (1931) The Primate Basis of Human Sexual Behavior The Quarterly Review of Biology, Vol. 6, No. 4 (Dec., 1931), pp. 379–410


  • Westermarck, Edward [1891] (2003) History of Human Marriage Part 1 Kessinger Publishing ISBN 0-7661-4618-9

  • Weston, Kath (1998) Long Slow Burn: Sexuality and Social Science ISBN 0-415-92043-4

  • Woock, Randy (2002) Promiscuous Women Should Be Praised





























































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